Messaging Guidelines for Skype and Discord Contacts

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If you want to be on my Skype or Discord Contact list, you need to follow my guidelines.

Fellas, I feel we need to have a talk. It’s about messaging on Skype and Discord. Being on my contact list is a privilege. If you misuse your privileges on Skype and Discord, I will have to take you off my contact lists between calls. I don’t want to do it, but here’s why:

Skype and Discord Monitor Chats

Not in the creepy way you maybe thinking. But with AI/Bots. I touched on this in another blog post, but let me recap and give you some more details. Skype has been using AI since, well, who knows when. It is nothing new. I have seen that if I post a link to my website in skype, bots with the hostname “” show up in my live feed. I am not the only person who has noticed this, either. Search in the Skype Forums and you will see other people asking about it.

Microsoft (they own Skype) does not admit to this or tell us why they do this. It is common practice given it’s a platform that boasts over 7 million user accounts. Microsoft simply does not have the ability to police this many accounts. Therefore, they rely on AI to scan accounts to assure that they are following TOS.

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Skype and Discord use AI & Bots to monitor chats

I don’t know how wide spread it is, but it seems like Skype may be using AI to censor images and video chats. During our text session a client booked, he sent me dickpics (of him in panties 🙂 ) on Skype. Skype was not letting the files go through. I could send him pics, but not vice versa. This happened when another guy (not a client) sent me dick pics on Skype. Both since the new TOS were rolled out.

Another client was in a Skype video call me, and he was mostly nude. When he stood up, the screen had lines through it. the same kind of lines I saw when two guys sent me pornographic images. Again, this is ONLY based on what I have seen a handful of times and what others have told me they have seen.

Adult conversations, trading links and images back and forth (especially of an adult nature) may then put a user’s account at greater risk of closure. Sorry, I am not going to risk that for a you wanting to send me a dick pic or two. If you have paid for chat time with me, We will move the conversation to KIK or another messaging platform. Or better yet, you can get my phone number and get $5 free credit to text me here.

Messaging Platforms are for my Business

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With over 6,000 contacts, it’s impossible to keep up with casual chat.

Most adult performers and providers have thousands of contacts. Thousands. Guys messaging constantly, wanting to “check in” isn’t helpful at all. In fact, it’s the opposite of helpful. It’s not that I don’t enjoy our time together, there just is no way at all for me to keep up with constant messages. Don’t be surprised or hurt if after exchanging a pleasantry, I ask if you are looking to book some time with me. I would love to be able to chat with all my clients, but I simply cannot answer all 6,000 or so clients when they message me, “Just checking in to say hi.” History has taught me 90% of guys who say that are merely bored and looking for conversation.

In the past, I muted a few clients who messaged me exessively. For various reason, I ended up deleting every guy I have ever muted. Discord doesn’t even allow me the option to mute individual users. Which presents us with a problem. I absolutely have to hear these messaging platform alarms for clients who want to book with me. This is how I earn my living. If you do continually message, I have no choice but to remove you from my contact list between bookings.

Discord and Skype are not for Casual Chat

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Free time to chat isn’t a luxury I have.

I love my clients. But if you really want to get to know me, following me on social media is the way. Even reading my blog posts and checking out the work I do on my websites well help you get to know me. Craving more of me? I offer texting/chat services on several popular sites that I am listed on. One even takes gift cards for payments (Reminder, I personally do not take gift cards as payment for any service). Some of these sites have promos, such as $5 free credit to sign up and text me.

If you want to book a specific amount of time with me for chatting, you always can on my website. I don’t chat on Skype for the reasons listed above. So we will need to move to KIK or Snapchat (depending on what you book) once you book your time with me. I do take Google Pay (formerly known as Google Wallet) and Circle Pay, in addition to several payment processors. (Check info out on my payment methods here.)

Wanting more regular access to me? I have several options that are just a few bucks each month. Some services are billed regularly every month, while other sites bill you for the whole block (month, 6 months, year, etc…) all at once. You can select the platform that is the BEST for you. And while I am not able to respond to each and every message, I will read them as I can. So we don’t lose that personal touch.

Do you already have a member account with a service that sells access to Snapchat, Instagram or Member Content? Ask me, chances are, I am already there. And if I’m not, I might want to hear about. The ones listed below are my preferred platforms.

Where You Can Get More Access to Me

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TextKat Get my phone number, get $5 credit, and we can trade pics, videos, messages and more

In Conclusion

It comes down to respect. I strive to show my clients respect, and I ask the same in return. It isn’t respectful of my time or business if I have 6,000 guys trying to get my attention. I enjoy the time I get to spend with each client. To help ensure it is quality time, respect my time.

If you were removed from my client list (contact list) it probably was because you weren’t respectful. I don’t have “unblocking fees” but I will not add you back until after you have booked more than 10 minutes with me. After you book with me, use my Contact Form to let me know. We’ll schedule a time.

Further Reading

Basics of Skype Etiquette

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